The spa is for dad's too!

Q. I always get my mom a spa gift card for Mother’s Day, what could I get my dad? Is a spa gift card good for a man too?

A. Yes it is! More and more men are discovering the joys of spa treatments. I suggest you put an actual service or spa treatment on the gift card and not just a card for a set dollar amount. Many men have no idea what to use the money for or what is available. Massage is still the most popular spa service for men. They usually feel comfortable with the treatment partly because they have an understanding of what they are getting. Many other spa treatments have names and associations that confuse non-spa goers, especially men. Some spas use very feminine terms for treatments like pedicures, manicures or facials. The smart spas are changing that up and re-naming services to target the male client. Usually these re-named services are variations of the tried and true spa treatments but with twists that make them more male friendly. How about a Hand and Foot Detailing for Men? It sounds like something they would do for their car. He might enjoy a Man-icure or a sports pedi. The facial is one service that has been associated with women so strongly that many men shy from trying it. The Man’s Skin Treatment, however does not sound like anything his wife would want to have. Just re-naming the service is not enough. The services should actually have some uniquely male oriented elements. In the pedicure for men you might see an emphasis on deep tissue massage of the feet and calf along with essential oils like lemon grass or sandalwood instead of lavender or rose. The Men’s Skin Treatment will concentrate on the more oily male skin type and deep poor cleaning with a great neck and shoulder massage as well. If you are confused by all the choices ask the spa if they have a spa package set up just for men. Many do. That will help you take the guess work out. If you just want to opt for one service that your dad will love, still go for the massage. It’s a great starting point. Once he feels comfortable in the spa he’ll be more willing to try some other options. If your dad is shy about the idea, get a couple’s massage that could include both he and your mom. This gift becomes an event they both look forward to, and will appreciate.

Q. I am thinking of buying my mother a gift certificate for a facial or a massage for Mother’s Day. What are the benefits of having a facial? I think

A. I am asked about facials and what they entail often. The term, “facial”, is very broad and general. When I perform a facial I customize it to the specific skincare needs of the recipient. Some spas and salons have pre-packaged facials that will involve cookie-cutter type services without a great deal of regard for the unique skin needs of the individual. Ask to speak to the lead skin therapist or esthetician before you buy. That said, there are some basics that any quality facial will provide. The service should begin with a deep cleansing that should remove dirt and dead skin cells and unclog pores. Once this step is complete the skin can breathe and should have an improved glow or color. All high quality facials should leave the skin more balanced and should improve the skin’s appearance and texture. Regular facials at intervals of 4 to 6 weeks will hydrate dry skin, improve oily acne prone skin, brighten the complexion and leave the client with noticeably firmer, fresher, younger looking skin. The facial is a great gift because it should also provide your mother with relaxation and the results should make her feel rejuvenated, pampered, and pretty… benefits every mother deserves.